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The Hidden Costs of Revenge
I just read a story by a Medium Writer “Melissa Corrigan” that she titled “Roofied & Raped — An Unexpected Betrayal” — My immediate reaction to the story, just as a reader, was elemental revenge. I even responded to the story with an “Eye for an Eye” retribution comment. Melissa did not do that and years later lives what she calls a “happy” life.
I thought further about my reaction to her story and this is my blog post reflecting on that thinking and my research on “Revenge”
The Hidden Costs of Revenge
Revenge might seem like a tempting way to get back at someone who has wronged you, but have you ever thought about the consequences that come with it? It’s not just about pride or justice; seeking revenge can come with a high price tag. In this post, I’ll explore how revenge affects our emotions, health, relationships, work, and even society as a whole.
Understanding Why People Seek Revenge
When someone does us wrong, it’s natural to want to get back at them. It’s like our way of trying to make things right and get even. But what I find out is seeking revenge is not a smart move. It might feel…