Hi Tommy - I suspect your past experiences have put a considerable push on your thoughts in this post. Being a former restaurant owner has to be an environment that is a constant "Butt Kicking Move Faster" experience. I much rather take inspiration from the doers who teach from their experience. You talk about learning from your failures... I have often said that and have come to the question of "Were they failures?" Successfully reframing that experience has given me much comfort and a dramatic boost of confidence. I admire your keep on keeping on approach - we are the richer for your stories...........Zidor